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Kim Nelson's avatar

I eschew resolution-making because it inherently implies wrongness. Instead, I relish in what went right. I take account of the goodness and delight I’ve experienced and look forward to ways I can expand those things. I recount the helpers and leaders who’ve made my circle, my community, and my life better; then I look for ways to steal their ideas and mold them into my own good works. I bask with wonder at the many ways my body helped me accomplish all that it did, and then promise to love it better and respect myself more. I take stock of the knowledge I’ve garnered in the last twelve months and offer loving appreciation to my teachers. I embrace the fact that so many people love me and I love so many people back. And I give thanks. Because I am alive, and have been for 64 years. That in itself is an amazing thing to behold.

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Wow, wow, wow! This is such an incredible comment Kim, I'm so thrilled to have discussions like this under my poem. I think there's something we can all take from here; relishing in what went right, expansion, community. 'I am alive, and have been for 64 years.' Yes! That IS an amazing thing to behold.

Kim Nelson's avatar

I’m so glad, Anagha. Conversations between generations are vital in these tense times. I have so much to learn from those older and younger than me. I want to keep growing and learning and I hope the my life’s lessons will occasionally strike a chord with others. I love reading other’s work and having others read mine! Happy New Year!

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Kim Nelson's avatar

And this is how it starts. I talk to Anagha, she shares with me, you join in the fun and we have a multi-generational, multicultural on-line party! It is good.

Don Boivin's avatar

Your willingness to step back and try to understand a cultural institution you don't even participate in shows your evolved spirit :-) And your writing is as beautiful as ever.

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

You’re too kind 😭

Tara Connor's avatar

Beautiful poem! I studied archaeology in college, and it has been a life-long interest of mine, so this looking back to try to understand better where we are now is very familiar to me. I'm not generally a fan of New Year's Resolutions. But I do love a fresh start. No matter that I'm not a full-time student anymore, September will always feel like the real new year to me. A brand new notebook and special pen are the best resolution of all. Thanks for this. It's really lovely and inspiring.

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

There's something so exciting about looking back at this vast human expanse of history, right? I find it awe-inspiring and humbling at once. And yes, here's to fresh starts! And September resolutions. I'm so glad you liked this piece, Tara.

Brina Patel's avatar

Beautiful poem, Anagha! I've been getting away from resolutions, as well, and allowing myself to just "be" a bit more this year. Also came across your work at a great time, as I've been embracing poetry more (reading/writing) embracing the creative inspiration that results. Thank you for sharing.

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Here's to allowing ourselves to just be, Brina! I'm so glad you're embracing poetry more; and I hope you're able to find some creative inspiration over here.

Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

The new moon

In the old moon's arms,

Every 27.322 days

Not an exact fit

Like pants, skirts, shoes.

Lives

So we make do.

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Beautiful! You should make this a post.

Malcolm J McKinney's avatar

And so I will. Thanks Anagha.

Reena Kapoor's avatar

Lovely poem Anagha! Loved the imagery you've used all through... PS. I am one who's never done resolutions, still don't. Not even sure why?

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Thank you Reena 🌸

And I’ve never really done them either! I couldn’t bring myself to fully commit or lean in to a resolution, I think.

Reena Kapoor's avatar

Something about too many rules, and who needs another -- perhaps it's an Indian woman thing ;-)

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

I completely get you! We’ve already grown up with enough rules, why add another

Priya Srinivasan's avatar

A snake eating its tail! Beautiful!

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Thank you and thanks for reading Priya! 💙

Caitlin Kotula's avatar

This poem and overall reflection was so gorgeous and gentle. I feel like it captures that timid human yearning for beauty, to start all over again, perfectly. Thank you for sharing this with us 🫶🏽

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Thanks for reading and sharing Caitlin ‘timid human yearning for beauty’ beautiful!

Allison Deraney's avatar

I enjoyed reading this so much, Anagha. I have developed an aversion to self-optimizing so this landed on me! Why the rush to new new new and why the need to change change change ourselves? I appreciate the idea of a bright shiny new year but not to fix or resolve anything - I like to enter it with reflection, thinking back and wondering what can I expand on from the teachings of last year?

Your poem here is gorgeous!

Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Thank you Allison! And I agree, the rush to self optimise is exhaustinggggg

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Anagha Smrithi's avatar

Ah this comment made my day Mike! The endings and beginnings playlist sounds just like my kind of thing. These chance connections are really something aren’t they? It’s really nice to be able to find them on the internet of all places. And I agree. Human connection is what it’s all about; both poetry and life 💙 thanks for reading and dropping this comment Mike